Sunday, November 14, 2010

My local market turns....

About a week ago I had an especially nice conversation with my dad. It was one of those conversations that reminds me that what I am doing here truly is a dream. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the daily stresses of life and to forget that this truly is a grand adventure. So after this conversation I head out to the souk (market) to buy a Happy Birthday helium balloon for a little girl in my class. I am walking with a spring in my step that had been missing for awhile as I dealt with the stress of school and report cards and thoughts of how do I help Ahmed understand living things without using any language and how do I grade a child who can’t communicate with me and how do I find more ways to challenge Abdellai and how do I…and on and on (not their real names of course). But on this particular night I felt it. I felt like I truly was living a dream. I walked around in my own little world, when suddenly I smell…farm animals?! Strange because I am in the market that I go to every day. I look around and sure enough about 30 sheep and rams right there in the middle of the market. Some of them are trying to wonder off, walking out in front of cars in true Egyptian fashion. Men and young boys hit them with sticks to keep them where they want them. I keep walking and then right there out of nowhere in front of a café that I like to go to, tied to a tree, are two cows. Just hanging out outside of the café as if someone had tied them up while they ran inside the way we would a dog. I giggle to myself then further down the road…more livestock. Of course I am not naive enough to assume that this really was what it looked like: my souk turned into a petting zoo. But there were so many animals that I did question what they could be for - surely there are too many for them to be used just for meat. I think about how hilarious and odd my life is. And then I remember my assitant principal telling me, in a discussion about what my grade ones were going to do to celebrate the upcoming Hajj (a pilgrimage to Mecca, Saudi Arabia that Muslims make annually) that the symbol is a lamb, because they perform a lot of sacrifices. Oh...my poor little friends.

I have since researched this a little more. During Hajj, Muslims commemorate the trials of the Prophet Abraham. Most notably, he was commanded by Allah (God) to kill his only son, Ishmael. He prepared to do this but then Allah intervened, and called out to them stating that his intention was enough and told him to replace his son with a ran to sacrifice instead. So Muslims now slaughter an animal (typically a goat, sheep or ram but can also be a cow for the very wealthy). They then keep a third of the animal for themselves, give a third to family and friends and a third to the poor.

So my friends in the souk are waiting for people to come choose them. A number will then be drawn right on the animal and the family will come and feed their animal over the coming days. Then on the day of Eid they will come sacrifice the animal. Traditionally the person is supposed to perform the sacrifice themselves but they can also have someone do it for them but they should be present to watch. This is how I understand it anyway from what I have read and conversation that I have had. I have been visiting my "petting zoo" over the last few days and dreading the day when it returns to what it was.

11 comments:

  1. I know how concerned you must be about your favourite blog stalker. After all, it has been several hours since you wrote a blog and no comment from me. Don't worry - I am still a constant follower but I have had some computer issues. Another interesting story in the life and times of Melissa on a Camel. Enjoy your scuba diving lessons - how incredible it will be swimming among the fish in the Red Sea. Take care - enjoy your holiday!
    Love you
    MOM

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  2. I'm still stalking too. Just so you know.
    Lovely to read your latest installment. I'm guessing the petting zoo is no more given today's date (my local restaurant at work was closed today for eid al adur (sp?)). Too bad.
    Pouring with rain here tonight and windy too. Homesick? Getting colder too!
    Keep enjoying the moments that remind you that you are where you are whenever they surprise you.
    Vicky

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  3. Great advice Vicky. It made me smile. Thanks!!! I am on vacation scuba diving on the Red Sea - blog to follow soon I hope. I can't lie to you part of me misses rain, wind and cold. Glad to know that you are still stalking! Love to you, Herb and Rita.

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  4. oh my goodness! i don't know how you can visit every day...i'm not sure i could! i have so much catching up to do on your blogs. at first i was a 'stalker blog follower' but i missed a few and LOVED reading htem all at the same time (never enough, just like candy and ice cream!) NOW i have so many to read it's intimidating! also fascinating because i keep re-reading favourite posts (like your first day of school, belly dancing and a quiet life...)

    sounds like a phenomenal experience though - wish i was there!! XOXOXOOOOOOOO love love love

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  6. It is flattering that you compare them to ice cream....I am behind writing them so I guess we both have catching up to do! I wish you were here too! Write soon. Love love love.

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  7. Hi honey! Welcome back from holidays. I am sure it is hard to get back into the swing of things after hanging out with the fish in the Red Sea all day. Today is the Santa Claus Parade - can you believe it. A sure sign that Christmas is on its way! We even have some snowflurries today to welcome the big man in red.
    Love You!
    MOM

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  8. Busy, Busy I know but definately time for a new blog - we are anxiously awaiting. Great news about your Vega girl - you sound so excited. Serena is looking forward to having her at home!
    Love You!
    Mom

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  9. Yes Mom...new one coming...promise.

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  10. Can't wait for a new blog. YOu probably owe us two or so by now! Your diving expeditions sound absolutely incredible!!
    Miss You!
    Mom

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